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by The Quantum Mechanic (TM) » Fri Oct 24, 2008 9:09 pm
When one moves on, or contemplates changing their status of "belonging" to any routine, group, organization-- especially spiritual gatherings where one enjoys the belief system that they are there for a (divine) (intentional) purpose; that those whom they meet are meant to be there-- as if reunited family and friends (from at least this lifetime), it can be difficult to let go from said routines.
One initially misses the gift of "expectation". There is this unknown, illusive sense of "looking forward to" or "anticipation" that a coming visit, teachingt, book, event, or gathering of many, will result in an enjoyable, stimulating, fun, purposeful benefit. The hope that one will feel, know, believe, and experience a state of mind, body, soul that is greater than when they arrived.
We know in psychology, that human beings tend to move away from pain, and toward pleasure when given the autonomy and freedom to do so.
The challenge many of us face, as we contemplate and move on, is the letting go of what we cherished, and perhaps were not even aware was "part and parcel" of the experience.
When, inevitably, in life, we rediscover that any time we put our faith, trust, hopes, resources, commitment in the hands of another, it is only a matter of time before we remember, "ah, yes, this is just like the last time I believed in someone or something".
The gift, is the sense of joy, of purpose we think we are bringing to our lives and others by the opportunity to learn, to share, to feel we are coming closer to knowing our purpose, our place, our talents, our ability to grow and master.
Most spiritual entertainments, allow us the fantasy of a collage of eastern and western variations on the theme of how one might interact with God, with the unseen, and often, the "gifts of the spirit" include the ability to heal oneself or others.
When we are dealing with grief, and no matter the proclaimed faith of the dearly departed, or ourselves, there is nothing like the pangs, the forever silenced voice, of someone whom we have truly, genuinely loved deeply. In such times, we are more likely to seek out answers, or even the "fringe" of alternate explanations-- and "proclaimed abilities" of others to contact the "dead" or "those who have transitioned beyond the physical body".
If there has been unresolved, ongoing, conflict, or deliberate unforgiveness on either of two or more parties, and death removes the opportunity to resolve differences, judgments or resentments, there too, is another factor in why we might chose avenues, individuals, or groups, we may not have ever sought out, were we in harmony with ourselves, and others.
During the Halloween month, there is all manner of preoccupation, and annual attention given to ghosts, paranormal activities, poltergeists, haunted places, and se?nces.
At the Yelm events, costumes were 'matter of factly' explained to be for dressing up, becoming that which you'd like to become -- or to master one's fear of something. This was often passed down to ones children. It was not necessarily wise, it was taught, to allow your children (or yourself) to dress up and pretend to be someone or something out of social consciousness, or without careful consideration to what one was putting their consciousness.
As such, some children did not have the complete freedom to be, to wear a holiday costume of their own choosing. After all, as students and "masters" of receiving the absolute truth and authority of such things... some faithful parents, made their children, contemplate 'that which they desired to become or master' as a prerequistite and mandate before the child(ren) could enjoy the holiday.
Of course, the "high holidays" of Christ-in-Mass (Christmas) kept creeping up, so that in many faithful students homes, the Christmas Tree (which had to be adorned in similar, deliberate fashion, ) went up in October as well.
The holiday season carried a wonderful sense of meaning to most of the masters at school, including me, myself and I.
From those who are not involved with any such spiritual group or organization, and attempt to enjoy the traditions of their family or religion, or a more "traditional" or going thru the motions of celebrating the annual seasons and holidays, we thought they may be missing the true meaning or purpose of same.
The hope, entertainment and "fun" of the tradition of opening a fortune cookie after an Americanized Chinese meal, or glancing in the paper, magazine, or on-line at one's 'sign' in the horoscopes, are more easily distinguishable as fun/entertainment or "wonder what it says" type of traditions.
Some, seek out psychics, fortune tellers, tarot card readings, and the like, hoping that said individual will be able to divine their future, tell them of their love life, their relationships, their job/work situation, their fortune... and depending on the learned skill sets of said soothsayers, one may put a little bit of hope or faith, unfortunate credibility, in what is being said in the name of...
And how does that then differ, with when pays even more money, dedication, time and slowly, unknowingly, become dependent upon the entertaining manner in which predictions or fortune telling is given? Especially when utilizing all manner of books, movies, sciences, global events?
Future historians will decide... but it certainly, at the least, has left the casual world of entertainment, and child-like hopeful play, into placing ones life choices, decisions, and destiny into the words, thoughts, beliefs of someone other than yourself.
This was ironically called, "giving one's power away" ... and so it is...