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frightened children...

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frightened children...
My five year old is frightened to go to the bathroom alone,
Why?
Because she believes there is a snake hiding in the wood grain pattern on the cedar walls.

truster....
How would you handle this situation, if that child were yours?

David.
If I might add something of my childhood experiences...

I also was afraid to go to the bathroom when I was little because I thought that some creature was hiding inside the toilet ready to attack me. I also kept seeing dark shadows at the brink of my eyes quickly flying away every now and then. I also used to keep my eyes open during night and observe objects in my room, often slightly frightened, until they appeared like they where moving or morphing into faces. One night I suddenly, in a half dreamlike state, heard strange voices around me and I got the feeling that I'm lying on a table surrounded by aliens, I strongly tried to keep my eyes shut because I was so terrified, then I woked up in fear and was glad to see the normal world around me again. Later I experienced other dreamlike events when I was half asleep. I was lying on my bed, paralyzed, and noticed a creature lurking around me, then it jumped onto me and attacked me furiously, it looked like a wolf or something. I managed to finally break the paralysis and realized that nothing happened.

Nevertheless, what I found really helpful during this times of fear was that my mother always accompanied and escorted me, assuring to me that I can't get hurt, until my fears faded away. Since then I thankfully no longer experienced such obscure events.
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Encourage Your Daughter

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Dave I'd encourage her. I'd act amazed that my duaghter has x-ray vision. Take her out to eat at her favorite place and glorify her ability.
dont be a dream and magic power killer dave.
I cant stand parents who steal childrens magic. Like telling them they need a coat when it's cold out.
I'd tell them your spirit is strong and you shouldn't need a coat, but bring one with you and carry it in your arms to remind yoursef you have the power to warm your field, and you just need to remove the genitic stupidity from the dna from years of church brainwashing.
soon enough your daughter will be seeing gold amoungst the ground. that should pay for the dinner treat.

and maybe if you remove your fear of seeing into a higher vibration it would come back.
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Huh? Are you sure you're not in RSE? ::scratching head:: I would recommend counseling to anyone who has left that place. I underwent grief counseling due to the loss of family members and my beloved dog, and also the RSE topic was tackled. If you haven't gone for counseling, talk to Joe, here, and I'm sure he can advise you, because what I'm reading is exactly what I've heard at RSE.

Peace.
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truster said, "Dave I'd encourage her. I'd act amazed that my duaghter has x-ray vision. Take her out to eat at her favorite place and glorify her ability.
dont be a dream and magic power killer dave.
I cant stand parents who steal childrens magic. Like telling them they need a coat when it's cold out.
I'd tell them your spirit is strong and you shouldn't need a coat, but bring one with you and carry it in your arms to remind yoursef you have the power to warm your field, and you just need to remove the genitic stupidity from the dna from years of church brainwashing.
soon enough your daughter will be seeing gold amoungst the ground. that should pay for the dinner treat.

and maybe if you remove your fear of seeing into a higher vibration it would come back."

Wow, truster ! Your post sounds like it came right from the stage in audience at RSE !!!
truster...the million dollar question is this, "are YOU able to warm and cool your body temperature no matter what the external weather conditions are?"
if so, may we all come and witness you doing so ? i know of a few icebergs in the far north that i'd like to watch you melt.

yeah, i thought so.
not.
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David, is that a real question for all of us?

What I take from truster's post is that instead of taking the approach of proving there is no snake and therefore nothing to fear, or being in the bathroom with her, to find a way to empower your daughter.

More practically, what about arming her with knowledge about snakes and where they live, what they eat? That some people keep them as pets. Maybe she could make friends with the snake in the wood and she'd have someone to talk to while doing her business.
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That sounds to me a good way to handle it, Wake-Up. It would depend on the degree of fear the small child is experiencing, as well. Just as some people are terrified of my German Shepherd just because he's a German Shepherd, the education of these same would be beneficial. However, if the person is so terrified, my dog will sense it outright. In that case, if someone wishes to get over this fear, they need to be introduced slowly. Initially, I'd go into the bathroom with my daughter when she needs to use it. I would buy books about snakes, not where the snake is a "villain," but one where the snake is happy and a necessary part of the community. Then, ask her if she would like to give the "picture" of the snake she sees a "name." Also, I'd take her into a petshop where there are bunnies, puppies, kittens, birds, and small snakes. I never was big on snakes myself, but I had the opportunity to touch two of them when visiting a pet shop where two men brought in their colorful snakes "just because." I felt very calm and looked at the beautiful colors and patterns and realized how pretty they were. Then I asked to touch them, to stroke them, and I did. They were soft! I was really surprised. (I would not allow my daughter to observe a snake eating, however). Explain the "picture" she sees is similar to the shapes we see in clouds as angels, bunnies, etc., and the "picture" she sees in the pattern is the same thing. Who knows...you just might wind up with a pet snake!~ (j/k) Anyway, this is some of what I'd do.
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allright ya all

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maybe she remotly senses the piping in the walls. this is symbolic of snakes. x-ray vision can also be described as remote view. which is possible, all though never bet your life on it. so if this being she needs encouragement to refine this skill.......
I have done some really amazing things in my life. never as consistant as i'd like.
And i'm not even going to attempt to melt an iceburg, and ruin beachfront homes.
I was in the military and we were trained to enjoy the most adverse weather conditions, because most likely that is when the enenmy is off guard. I'm the guy wearing shorts in the winter when all the weak minded people going to counciling are wearing 3-4 layres. it's just in the mind ya all.
Several months ago i took a test for a job and over a hundred people were there. when i handed my test to the lady she looked at it and her eyes flared up at and said oh your from yelm. ya know i'm broke enough as it is i'm not going to let "yelm" steal my wealth. So this really pissed me off and instantly without me touching her she flew 10 feet up into the air, crashed on top of a table skidded off into an entanglement of chairs. There was this chinese guy with his eyes looking at me like i was the next angry budha or something. All I can say is i didn't mean for that to happen, but anger has it's ways.
And I can also honestly say one time i inspired a little girl where the lack of you would of never made it happen. I was walking through a nice neighborhood going to the library to read some rig vedas and i saw 4 maybe 7 year old gilrs hudelling around a bleeding dead dog hit by a car. I asked the girls how long has it been dead and they said an hour. I told the girls all you have to do is touch it right between the eyes and it would come back to life. 3 girls looked at me like they needed a jacket and it was cold and the one girl gave a look like well i'll try it, and she touched the the dog right between the eyes and it jumped up springboarded off her shoulders landed perfectly and did a twenty mile per hour sprint through the yards. all the girls said hey who are you, and for the purpose of this forum i said truster's my name, and i walked off.
Ya all are dream killers.
you need more disney movies.
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Kaa...!

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David, is that a real question for all of us
Sure....Wakeup-Call.
thank you everyone for your insights..
And yes....
the story with my daughter is true.... happened just a few days ago.

I don't have time right now to post,
but... I think its best to move this subject to its own thread.

truster....
I would very much like to talk to you personally.
If this is agreeable?
please email at...

LARSE@ywave.com

David.
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truster said, " but anger has it's ways."

sure does. and as ADULTS we are all responsible for how we handle our own anger. if i had out-of-control anger that moved another person, i'd be concerned. when you relay your story about your anger causing an outer Action, do you think having that happen in the way you relayed it, is acceptable to you ?

if my child looked at the wall and imagined it resembled a snake, which incited some fear, i would validate the child's fear. it's real to them. then, i would say that while things can make us feel fear, but the FEAR is only in our mind. everyone feels fear at times; that's not the problem. putting the fear in its proper perspective is what we, as parents, need to do.

conversely, there are people who have "seen" divine beings, etc., in the wood on walls, in the sky, etc. there was an online article quite recently about a guy who saw jesus in his toast !!

there is a really cute little children's short story book that is all about monsters in the closet. it's about a little boy, who gets scared at night when he goes to bed....and his room is dark...and it casts shadows that scare him...and he's convinved there are monsters in his closet coming to get him. the story takes a young child, with HUMOR, through the fear the boy feels...and in the end...he realizes that he is SAFE, there are no monsters, and he makes "friends" with his "monsters" ... his own fear. david, i'll find the title of that book for you. i'm sure an area library has the book; it's pretty popular.
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patience

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when it comes to kids and their irrational fears, I believe patience and doing nothing at first but sitting and listening, letting them talk it through calmly first is a good start. Reasurring them that you are not afraid of the snake is good. Sometimes these things pass on their own--kids figure things out too....at least my three did. You could also ask, "Let's see how we feel about it tomorrow."

truster....you have a very active imagination, methinks! :wink:
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I'm the guy wearing shorts in the winter when all the weak minded people going to counciling are wearing 3-4 layres. it's just in the mind ya all.
And I can also honestly say one time i inspired a little girl where the lack of you would of never made it happen.
I don't know how long you have been out, but comments like these ring of arrogance as the byproduct of the group.


took a test for a job and over a hundred people were there. when i handed my test to the lady she looked at it and her eyes flared up at and said oh your from yelm.
yep, the locals and in the vicinity don't take kindly to cults.
even though you might not wear a cape anymore, you can't really be sparking off telling stories of waking things from the dead.
but your reaction of pent of anger as having been identified of "one of those" is pretty obvious.
I dunno, you can stay around Yelm and "take it" and tough it out against whomever and whatever,
or you can move on.
as one ph d told me : "the environment of Yelm is toxic to the client"
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The comments throughout this message board re Yelm being unfriendly or toxic or bad energy or some such negative stuff reminds me of a story told throughout many cultures/traditions - of the person who comes to the gates of a city and asks the gatekeeper what kind of folks live here ... And the gatekeeper asks the person what were the folks like in the place from which you came.... And the person said: they weren't very friendly, it was an evil place, negative negative negative.... And the gatekeeper said: then that is what you will find here.... ..... A while later a person came to the gates of the same city and asked the gatekeeper what kind of folks live here.... And the gatekeeper asks the person what were the folks like in the place from which you came.... And the person said: they were friendly and kind and helpful positive positive positive.... And the gatekeeper said: then that is what you will find here.
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Good Analogy ad60

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Yeah I normally live by that philosophy, and I commonoly suggest it people as well.
Your mentioning that from this perspective makes me realize i have to apply respectively.
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the lady who flew through the air

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so this lady unexplainably flew into the air and crashed into some table and chairs. Ya know that moment felt like an hour in only a few seconds, while seeing her prject and that that chineese guy's eyes bug out at me. I instantly jumped out of my chair to offer the lady a hand to get up, and she climbed out of the chairs, and yelled at me saying i'll be thinking of you when i'm looking at my bruises. Well I was speachless. I didn't know what to say, i just walked out of there thinking well i don't think i'm getting this job, i woke up early for nothing. And that moment has to this day stayed in my thoughts.
So on my anger on her judgemental look. I physically didn't challange her vocally, and i offered help to her, as to what else happened from my analysis anger has its ways is all i can say. an eye for an eye, is sometimes really for example to dent a car in the parking lot and flee the scene and a cashier rings an item up twice without you noticing it. karma just has it ways.
so maybe my level of financial survival in no way deserved her judgement! to throw me out of acceptance actually threw her.
throw is as throw does says forest.

And this topic is great for emf.
did we fail rse as the current students are trained to say trying to put a curse on our magic, i think not.
we can all remember great things we did before, during, and well after rse.
That was my main point to you in no offence at all to anyone. It was merely stating a master can heal or curse pigs off a cliff, or kill a fig tree with black magic.
we can all dream things into existence, never act like it is crazy for this to happen, dont kill the dream.
if the power is there and allways is it can be used any way deemed.
I felt some of you were talking as if magic is impossible and to talk of such is to act as if your right of the stage of rse.
so ramtha or jz aren't needed for any of this to happen is my point.
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The Holy Bible approved by the courtrooms

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So the courtrooms of america approve of the bibles laws.
one of these says to an extent what you do unto others will be done unto you.
Now how many people has jz thrown out of the arena with the help of a multitude of redness.
What will karma throw her out of as the courtroom bible aproves of, time will allways tell.
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David- from what I understand it's fairly normal for kids to have irrational fears at just about any age. Sometimes it could be triggered by uncertainty surrounding their life (is there some major change she might be processing this way...?) or it could just be part of their normal development. I have read some advice that says it is important (especially for young kids) to have their fears validated, in other words, it's probably not the time to encourage her to confront her fear, but rather make sure she knows that she is safe and you will protect her.


Whenever we have monster (or whatever) fears we use several methods:

either

reassuring her that there's no such thing as monsters and explain that she's safe with us.

or

asking her to tell me what she thinks the monsters look like and where she thinks they live and what they do, this either makes her laugh because I think she realizes their not real or I might ask if they have purple ears or green noses or spaghetti for hair, whatever is most ridiculous.

or

we'll go look under the bed and make sure there's nothing there.

or

we talk about how she'll beat up the monsters and scare them away if they do show up.

or

if nothing else works I'll just tell her I'm here and will make sure nothing happens to her.


So far, all the 'fear' phases have passed relatively quickly. The funniest (and I really tried not to laugh) fear my daughter ever had was, she was afraid the wind would blow her away even when there wasn't any breeze...
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Books About Fear for Kids

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Here are some good book titles for little children about fear/monsters...perceived monsters. I would check at my local library to get these. They're pretty "funny" and are a great way to bring up the subject of such things with kids.

The Monster Under My Bed (A Giant First-Start Reader) (Paperback)
by Suzanne Gruber
At bedtime, a little bear finds that there is a logical explanation for those monster noises coming from beneath his bed.


There's a Nightmare In My Closet
by Mercer Mayer
Childhood fear of the dark and the resulting exercise in imaginative exaggeration are given that special Mercer Mayer treatment in this dryly humorous fantasy.

There are lots of other little kids' stories about this sort of thing, because it's common/normal that they go through this phase of childhood. That's what they have loving parents for; to help them grow through it :wink:
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TO JZ KNIGHT.......A.K.A......Judi

My problem with RSE is that "WE THE PEOPLE" are promised the truth BUT are given a LABYRINTH that leads the common person to nowhere.

NOW....... To those.... like myself.......... Who have read other text......And who are AFFLUENT....... In THE TRUE MEANINGS OF RSE....... I must say that you... JZ.....Represent .......... The common mistake.........MADE by MOST Great Work Students..............You THINK that you can THINK your way out of People, Places, Things, Times and Events.

Wrongo In The Congo !

THE TRUTH LIES IN THE "LIGHT HEART".

The LH produces the "atmosphere" for the FRONTAL LOBE........ The LH is brought about by DEPRESION.

The LH is another word for THE LORD.......OR the Christo.......That says that whatever is of the heart IS reality..........as long as it is ACCEPTED by the GOD......The Attitude........ OR creator.........Through the LORD.
OR the LORD.. GOD... OF MY BEING........

The "Lord God Of My Being" Is an intersting statement..........
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THE LORD GOD OF MY BEING...


Lord represents the SOUL..........The 4th Seal........The recorder.......OR the BRIDGE between consciouseness and unconsciousness.

WHAT DO YOU REMEMBER through re-incarnations.

What we remember is WHAT we are burden with.

I myself was burdened with my own SEXUAL diviation.

The TRUTH rises and falls in an individual accordingly to their ability to process ONES TRUTH.

JZ processes only WHAT SHE SEE's without PAIN.

In the ASTRAL MODEL....one rises UP through the the UNFORGIVEN and collects like a vampire on those who are followers.

JZ loves the wolfman........because he is the only one who knows the thruth.
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Reoccuring Nightmare Solved

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I read a true story of a woman who had a reoccuring nightmare of a man chashing her. she went to a psychologist for advice and he told her why dont you ask him why he is chasing you next time it happens. Well she did and the man whose face became familiar close up was just an old friend trying to reach her through time and space in the dream world to thank her for a good deed she did in the past.
so likewise this analogy can be applied to snakes as well for all animals have thier point of view as well as each individual.
a dream sign of a snake is sometimes wisdon, the snake temps us with wisdom, maybe she sees wisdom in the cedar tree.
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The Fear Factor...

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Thank you one and all for your posts? much to ponder.

Perhaps the biggest issue I faced to walk away from RSE was Fear..!
A fear so insidiously embedded in my mind it was near impossible to distinguish irrational madness from reason and logic,
I was in a place of total mistrust, even of my own thoughts and deepest faith, and monsters were afoot everywhere.
I carried a terrible foreboding of the future, of failure and being alone.
At the root of this fear I discovered another frightened wee child, Her name.. Judith Darleen Hampton, a little girl still hiding deep within her own fearful imaginations, living in never never land, complete with monsters and ?Knights? in shining armor.
In this dark kingdom she built her castle and stronghold to entrap those brave hearts that venture across its drawbridge, but once within its walls, wined and dined the most succulent deceptions that feed and strengthened our deepest fears and weaknesses. The weaker we became the more glorious?Ramtha? our personal savior appeared, our very own supernatural father figure and protector.
In this sea of delusion the way out is lost, and the way home is abandoned.

In caring for my little one and seeing her struggle with such sweet and innocent fears, there is not a whole a lot of difference from my own fearful struggles.
To know the difference between a bona fide fear from a delusional one takes a critical mind, In this territory no matter how much of a sincere ?spiritual? belief I may hold or disciplines practiced, is no substitute for a rational thinking, It does not rob of our spirituality but an essential element of life itself?
What?s love got to do with it?
Everything?.
The way I approached my daughters fear was to..First of all? Not to make a big fuss and drama out of the situation
I asked her to show me what was so frightening, she pointed out the snake image in the woodwork, she was afraid of snakes that bite?
I asked her if she was to draw a picture of a snake, would she also be afraid of it ? Oh yes? she said.
I assured her there are no biting or harmful snakes where we live, that snakes are more often afraid of getting trampled on and would much rather runaway.
Later that evening while she was sleeping.... I penciled in a wee smile on the face of the snake in the bathroom.

Do I believe in fairies?
Perhaps more to the point is ?
Do fairies?. believe in me?
I hope so. :D

Chuckle

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:)


I love that....penciled in a smile.
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What a great idea! How did it turn out, David?
:) :) :)
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How did it turn out, David?
She had a little breakthrough, our little one used the bathroom alone today..but she kept the door wide open.
Perhaps she noticed the snake was smiling...
I will keep you posted on any important breakthroughs..

chuckle....

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Perhaps she noticed the snake was smiling..
perhaps she has a pencil in hand while on the potty and draws another snake with
fangs and a smile staring back at the previously perceived scary creature (to denote SHE has power
over the other perceived scary snake)
as I don't think your little one would think to be mean enough to bite back,
just see herself as having power over the original "icky one" :)

no need to be mean, just stand her ground on her throne :)
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cartoonish snake

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way to turn the frown upsidedown.

If i had a child and that happened I would of had my wife take her out for the day and i would of taken the cedar paneling off and placed a gold chain with a snake pendant placed it behing the wall.
then when she came home i would say well why dont we look behind the wall and see if there is a snake there and make the child develop the placebo ability to have x-ray vision for gold.

they say cartoons dumb down children, i'd would of stepped it up for some placebo magic.
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i would say well why dont we look behind the wall and see if there is a snake there and make the child develop the placebo ability to have x-ray vision for gold.
hahah! this is funny! this is what JZ does!!! HAHAHAH!
"draw a wall and see yourself walk through it"
"draw whatever and see it in your hand"
"draw your card and see it on your chest" and watch Audrey cheat
"draw biolocation on your card" think and say " I have always remembered that I can do this"...and watch Audrey cheat

they say cartoons dumb down children, i'd would of stepped it up for some placebo magic.
truster-
you are making quite the absurd and wrong conclusion in thinking that David allows his child to run rampant with cartoons.
ASS U ME

you have quite the vivid imagination
not to mention the arrogance of former military who are better than others because your mind is tougher because you wear
shorts in winter
:roll:

just give me my flannel jeans and lined sweatshirt, and I will skip all the mind*&^ and energy doing such
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a lot of people where shorts in the winter

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Its not just the military who enjoy the bitter elements. I see all kinds of people wearing shorts in the winter.
i've seen some parents who rush their child off to get drugs at the first sign of a cold, and some parents who tell the child to dig down deep and tough it out of them.
to tell them to tough it out is some placebo magic healing.
the placebo can just about accompish anything.
I think the field work is about the dumbest idea she ever came up with.
the 2nd card i found of the 3 events i went to i saw jz look at my card on her stage and a month later came out an almost exact replica of it called the " i',m allways the future now" poster. she just changed it a little bit and then printed them up.
That was the only good thing about field work to me realizing on how she is a thief.
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Since this post is about frightened children, I have to take issue with your point about telling a child to 'tough it out', truster.

Sure there are times when a parents' secure guidance can give a child confidence and make them feel at ease that their fears are unfounded. That is the appropriate use of 'toughing it out' imo.

But there are also times when failing to acknowledge a child's true feelings will not bring them closer to feeling genuine confidence in themselves. For the parent it is certainly easier to ask a child to 'tough it out' sometimes and for sure, a kid who does not get the needed acknowledgement from their parent will learn to 'tough it out', but what are they really learning? That the one person who is supposed to protect them can't be trusted either...?

I'm not saying making that distinction is ever easy.

Anyway, getting off my parenting soapbox now...
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okay truster-

so now we went from fear and magic issues of children to your idea being stolen by jz herself.
just sue her and get it over with.
I believe that statement though about as much as the golden triangles.

I am also curious to the fact if you indeed have children or not.
From how you post, I think that is not the case.
Your empathy and compassion definitely resound of the child-less sector of the population.

Quite the interesting continuous segue off topic.
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truster, are you employed by jz knight ?
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Truster - are you really Mike Wright, or Steve Klein? Certainly not Dr. Greg or Sir Robert . . . .
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Sometimes I think we're being Punk'd by ya, Truster!.....
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we went from fear and magic issues of children to your idea...

this about sums it up.
maybe start a new thread truster.
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Truster wrote: "Its not just the military who enjoy the bitter elements. I see all kinds of people wearing shorts in the winter. "

So do I, when I'm in south Florida, Mexico, Bahamas....etc. I'll bet my climate is much colder than yours anyday. Had about 15 inches of snow just overnight, and oops, I ran outside without shoes to pick up a UPS delivery. I'm not in Florida, either.
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whatcha,
I swear to god i have never or never will be or have been employed by rse.
I feel a small percentage of rse is truth but for the larger percentage i feel the school should be closed down for good.

And this thread has gone all over the place.
it seems we all are really children who have a few to many fears.
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I grew up in the snow belt. Blizzards were common. It was frequent for people to be up on thier roofs shoveling snow.
I used to love going for a jog in the blizzards in a t-shirt and shorts.
i heard eskimos dunk thier babys in icewater and if it dies the bad genes aren't allowed to reproduce in the community.
Now that is telling the child to tough it out to the max.
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As well as CLyde Hood (Omega) personally visiting jz
Thanks for the reminder tree...

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I gave incorrect info. Michael Kodosky is dead, not Clyde Hood. :oops:

Here is an interesting link to the scams Omega/Alpha/Destiny. At least I was only suckered into Omega and Destiny. Lucky me. :roll:

http://www.quatloos.com/cm-omega/cm-omega.htm
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Truster wrote: ""i heard eskimos dunk thier babys in icewater and if it dies the bad genes aren't allowed to reproduce in the community. ""

Do you mean the Inuit in Alaska? Is this still continuing? Source please. This is a crime.....
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I personally know an Inuit. this is not the case with them in this day and age.
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truster wrote:I grew up in the snow belt. Blizzards were common. It was frequent for people to be up on thier roofs shoveling snow.
I used to love going for a jog in the blizzards in a t-shirt and shorts.
i heard eskimos dunk thier babys in icewater and if it dies the bad genes aren't allowed to reproduce in the community.
Now that is telling the child to tough it out to the max.
Truster, I think this is totally insulting to Inuit ?slanderous, actually . . . and I?m totally appalled you would write such a thing. The Inuit, living in Alaska and northern Canada, have been the guardians of nature much more so than the rest of us and we have a lot to learn from them about living on this planet and with each other in a respectful way.
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Truster has left the building, I mean forum.
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ordinarymind said, "Truster, I think this is totally insulting to Inuit ?slanderous, actually . . . and I?m totally appalled you would write such a thing. The Inuit, living in Alaska and northern Canada, have been the guardians of nature much more so than the rest of us and we have a lot to learn from them about living on this planet and with each other in a respectful way."

I agree.

Then again, our fellow poster (ex-poster? =-)
truster has said many insulting things.

I wish him well, but I do not believe it is in everyone's best interest that he be here.

Bon Voyage !
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Live long and prosper..

"truster"

mmm.. interesting name.... :roll:

chuckle

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